Many times it is interesting to consider the source of advice. If somebody is extremely lazy, overweight, and overeats extensively - they would probably not be a good person to listen to on how to lose weight. If somebody has filed for bankruptcy routinely, they would probably not be the best financial advisor. Although these are somewhat extreme cases, it still holds true that the source should always be considered when advice is being received.
People that might not be great at the accompanying topics
- Heavy smoker - health advice
- Professional Boxers - preventing brain damage
- Perpetually unemployed - career path decisions
Although these examples imply that the people don't practice what they could be potentially preaching… it is not uncommon to find that these people are experts in the suggested field. Sometimes logic gets the best of us, and says that these people are actually experts in their areas, but for whatever reason, their circumstances don't reflect it.
Peter, you should stop blogging and surfing the net so much.
Uh... better consider the source on that one, too.
(nerd!)
Sometimes people just want you to learn from their mistakes. They've tried something that didn't work so they just want to pass on what they've learned.
Jen, I suppose that you pose a good point. I think the difference might be in the delivery. Those that want you to learn from their mistakes generally will say something like, "Don't make the same mistake(s) as me, so you should do ______." The people that are oblivious to their own mistakes, yet pass on their "words of wisdom" don't seem to say that sort of thing.
I agree with Jen that often things are passed for the good of others..as your father (and part time Yoda) everything I say is for your good grasshopper--hear me now--learn you might
Dad, I agree with the "often" part of that. I guess it can become important to ensure that is well-communicated so that it doesn't come across as hypocrisy. I'm speaking in generalities here, not saying that anybody (except a guy I work with) is a hypocrite â he's really the one that caused me to write this.